SO I WAS THINKING....AFTER 25 YEARS OF GROWING I HAVE COME TO REALIZE THAT I MUST LIVE MY LIFE TO MAKE ME HAPPY. SOMETIMES PEOPLE, INCLUDING MYSELF, GO THROUGH LIFE TRYING TO PLEASE OTHERS BECAUSE APPROVAL OR ACCEPTANCE MAKES THEM FEEL GOOD ABOUT WHO THEY ARE. WE ONLY LIVE ONCE AND IT IS SO IMPORTANT TO TAKE TIME FOR YOURSELF AS WELL AS THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE THAT MATTER TO YOU MOST, BECAUSE TOMORROW IS NOT PROMISED. FOR THE FIRST TIME IN A LONG TIME I FEEL THE TINGE OF REGRET BECAUSE OF A DECISION I MADE BASED ON THE ADVICE OF SOMEONE ELSE....ADVICE THAT I ACTUALLY DID NOT ASK FOR! AND IT ULTIMATELY LEFT ME UNHAPPY AND THE OTHER PERSON UNAFFECTED!!! I HAVE BEEN FRUSTRATED FOR DAYS ABOUT MY DECISION AND IT IS TOO LATE TO DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT. SO PLEASE DO ME A FAVOR AND REMEMBER THAT SOMETIMES WE SHOULD JUST LET GO OF MENTAL CONTROL, FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND GIVE YOUR MIND A REST! I HOPE THIS MESSAGE SPEAKS TO SOMEONE BEFORE THE MAKE A CHOICE, NO MATTER HOW BIG OR SMALL, THAT LEAVES THEM FEELING REGRET. GOODNIGHT BLOGGING BUDDIES ; )
UGH I feel you on this one guuuurl.. I listened to others advise on a situation..and all along I was hell bent on NO NO NO NO..but everyone else was like..Gucci give him a shot..he is nice..blah blah..needless to say that blew up inmy face!! UGH...morale of the story..I aint listening to any but mydamn self!! lmao
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